You’re online and it’s going well. Too well. There are four guys you like but you can’t keep them all straight. They’re also all named Michael, or a variation thereof. I mean, is it even kosher to date four guys at once, let alone all with the same name?
The answer: Yes! That is, as long as you stay close to some simple rules. After all, dating is like the lottery. You gotta be in it to win it!
Firstly, you have to put them all in your phone with a specific attribute as their “last name”. For instance, “Michael from Maine” or, ”Mikey Motorcycle” this is so you know who’s calling you. Then make sure they all know about each other.
Yup. That’s right! This not only lets you off the hook, but also instills an innate sense of competition in your suitors. This isn’t to cause jealousies or play games. It’s just to allow everyone to be on the same playing field and know they’re not the only fish in the sea.
Now let’s talk nookie. Let me rephrase, no big time nookie. Keep it to junior high sensibilities. In other words, if you’re making out with Mikey on Monday, then no second base with Michael from Maine on Wednesday.
We’re dating here, not being slutty Mc Slutstiens.
This is how my friend found her husband! She was dating four different men at the same time and because they all knew about each other it forced all of them to up their game.
Suddenly all the Mikes wanted her for a Saturday night date and obviously there were four of them and only one of her. This is a simple case of supply and demand.
This is courting people! To allow someone to spend time with you, to gift them with your company isn’t arrogant. It’s healthy.
So go on and give Michael, Mike, Mikey & Mick a call. Make some plans and have fun. The more dates you go on, the clearer you’ll become about who you wish to grace with your presence and the closer you are to weeding out the Mikes.